Louise Cordana
It can be difficult to find the right words to say goodbye. As a professionally trained Funeral Celebrant I will help to create a truly personal funeral ceremony that is exactly as you wish it to be.
Not everyone wants the same type of funeral and I will meet with you to discuss the ceremony fully.
You will be able to check the ceremony content beforehand and I will offer you a full text of the ceremony to keep afterwards.
The ceremony will capture the very essence of the person and tell the story of the life that has been lived.
Perhaps you are considering scattering or interring ashes, and wish to mark the occasion meaningfully. I will work with you in saying your final goodbyes.
There are some local restrictions and guidelines for scattering of Ashes in an ethical and ecological way, and it's quite straightforward to find these out and come up with good solutions. There are also options to divide Ashes or to use some in memorial items.
A Memorial Ceremony can be a wonderful way to remember and celebrate a life. Perhaps some time has passed, or perhaps not everyone who wanted was able to attend the funeral.
Memorial events can take many forms, from family reflections to something of a party. If you have a planner, I am happy to work with them in realising your wishes.
I will help you create a truly personal and unique ceremony that is exactly as you would wish it to be, delivered with dignity, sincerity and compassion. We all make different choices in life and the choices surrounding a funeral are no different. For some, great comfort can be found in a familiar poem, prayer or hymn. I'm happy to weave these into the ceremony, along with other semi-religious or non-religious words of comfort, personal music choices and individual reflections and to offer suggestions which might represent your feelings at the time and respect individual beliefs.
I will ensure that the words and sentiments expressed are reflective of your emotions and wishes as well as the person you have lost, to create a ceremony full of meaning and heart.
I have completed the highest possible qualification in Funeral Celebrancy in the UK, NOCN Level 3 Diploma in Funeral Celebrancy (RQF). This means that I have been rigorously assessed for my skill and suitability as a Funeral Celebrant, and am able to create and deliver an appropriate and unique funeral ceremony with sensitivity and empathy.
I'm lucky that I trained with the best: Civil Ceremonies Ltd, who have pioneered the Celebrant movement in the UK.
I've adopted the Funeral Celebrancy Accord, a document that outlines the set of standards by which all celebrants offering funeral services should be measured.
I'm a member of the professional organisation AOIC, the Association of Independent Celebrants, and follow their core Code of Practice.
I have Public Liability and Public Indemnity Insurance, and have a current enhanced DBS check.
Funeral directors will usually let you know about Tell Us Once, the UK government service which notifies and closes official accounts when someone has died.
Less well known is Life Ledger, a UK service you can use to inform and close other accounts: banks, insurance, catalogues, memberships, utilities and social media companies.
It's completely free to register and use, as they make money directly from the companies. I'm not affiliated to Life Ledger in any way and receive no payments from them! I simply attended their Celebrant awareness training, and think it's a great service which can save bereaved families hours of frustration.
As an Civil Celebrant I am:
MEETINGS
I will meet with you either in person or on Zoom to discuss your wishes, your choices, and can offer suggestions for apt readings, poetry and music you may wish to include. I will gather details about the story of the life that has passed in order to create a truly personalised service that reflects their thoughts and beliefs. I will send you a draft script to check details, and so that you will know what is to happen and what will be said on the day.
WORKING WITH A FUNERAL DIRECTOR
If you would like me to be your Celebrant and you already have a Funeral Director, simply pass my details onto them and I will work with their team to deliver the funeral. Funeral Directors are used to working with a variety of religious, semi-religious and non-religious Celebrants.
DIY FUNERALS
If you have discovered what to do, I am able to be a Celebrant at your DIY funeral. I know a few things about the funeral industry outside my role as a Celebrant, but would be unable to make arrangements - I would advise if I thought a Funeral Director is needed - I know a couple of excellent FDs who would follow your DIY wishes.
NATURAL BURIALS
Entirely possible and absolutely beautiful. There are many managed sites in the UK for this option.
ASHES
There are some local restrictions and guidelines for scattering of Ashes in an ethical and ecological way, and it's quite straightforward to find these out and come up with good solutions. There are also options to divide Ashes or to use some in memorial items.
MEMORIALS
Memorial events can take many forms, from family reflections to something of a party. If you have a planner, I am happy to work with them in realising your wishes.
FEES
To write and deliver a Funeral service in the London area my fee starts at £250.
Scattering or Internment of Ashes service is usually £100-£150.
Memorial service is usually £250.
WHAT IS INCLUDED
All funeral, ashes and memorial ceremonies include:
All my travel to meetings and bookings in the London area is included within my fee. Additional travel and personalisation of items may cost extra, and will be by arrangement: there will be no surprises.
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